Helping your child understand and respect others’ differences
Children notice differences, so teach them that being different is no biggie. Appreciating differences will help your child form healthy relationships, teach them to celebrate all people, and encourage kindness and respect.
At this age, children put people, places, and things into categories to help them understand the world a little better. They lump people together based on what is visible, like gender, race, or age. While this can be useful (and is developmentally appropriate), it is important to show your kids that different doesn’t mean “bad.”
- Even though your children may not be able to say much, it is really important to talk with them about what they see and feel.
- Explain that people come in all shapes, colors, and sizes.
- Challenge stereotypes. Let your child explore activities that get aimed at the opposite gender. Try to provide toys and play opportunities that go against gender stereotypes.
- Use titles like firefighter, police officer, and garbage collector instead of fireman or police woman. This can help your child understand that anyone can do these jobs!